Tips for Reducing Stress

Are you stress lately? What causes you to stress?
For whatever reason that we may have, Stress will not solve your problem.

Below let us see some tips for reducing stress in your daily life that i get from some Health Website:

1. Breathe Deeply - Inhale deeply through your nose.
Pull the air all the way down, deep into the lungs. Hold the breath for a count of six. Exhale slowly through the mouth to the count of six. Do this for several minutes. Be careful not to hyperventilate. If dizzy or light-headedness occur, begin breathing naturally.

2. Share Your Feelings and Thoughts - Call a friend.
Join a group. Join a community on the Internet. If you feel these avenues are not helping talk to your doctor, seek out a counselor. Use all resources after through work, church and community. If seeing a counselor is something you’re fearful of, consider getting a pet. Pets listen very well.

3. Make Time for Relaxation and Fun – Find an activity that makes you feel good.
It may be dancing, listening to music, walking along the beach, prayer, hiking in the mountains, working in the garden, taking photographs, watching birds, going to the movies, golfing, swimming, visiting museums. Make a list of activities that give you joy. Break them down into time segments of 2-5 minutes, 5-20 minutes, 30 minutes to ½ day and ½ day or longer. List the activities that give you joy under these time segments. Do at least three of them everyday. Most people think they have to do big things, such as vacations of whole days away from work or home to relieve stress. Not so, small activities that give you joy are the best stress busters.

4. Exercise - Try something new, like swimming.
Begin a walking program. Do some form of exercise that interests you. Make sure to consult your physician beforehand.

5. Laugh - Laughter is a great way to relieve stress.
If you find something funny, have a good belly laugh. Watch funny movies. Read funny stories.

6. Get Rid of Negative - Take a hard look at the circle or environment you’re standing in.
People who are negative and prone to “moods” spread negativity to others. Learn to say no to negativity and remove yourself from it whenever possible.

7. Get A Massage – Make an investment in yourself.
Massage therapy can relax muscles, easy muscle spasm, increase blood flow to skin and muscles and relieve mental and emotional stress. A massage will be one of the best investments you’ve ever made.

8. Be Realistic in Expectations– Don’t expect everyone to be like you or behave to your code of “shoulds and oughts”.
Don’t expect to be right all the time. Don’t expect harmony all the time. Real life has conflicts in it. Be willing to confront conflict, state your needs then work at coming to a mutual compromise.

9. Examine your expectations of yourself - When you can’t live up to them, they will cause stress, tension and pressure.
Learn to say no when unrealistic demands are placed upon you. Communicate what you can do and what you can’t do clearly. Be honest with yourself on the expectations (goals) you place on yourself. Don’t let ego and social pressure force you into being/doing something your not.

10. Monitor Your Communication Skills – Aggressive and hostile communication with others antagonizes and alienates.
Assertive training can help you learn to express your needs without offending others or feeling ignored.

11. You can only change yourself - Work to grasp the full meaning of this statement.
Trying to change another person causes stress to both parties. It can ruin relationships, damage relationships and cause others to withdraw from you. If you make statements such as – if only he, if only she, if only they – then you need to look in the mirror and say, what can I change about myself to make the situation better.

12. Accept Reality - If you can’t leave a situation that is causing you extreme stress then accept it as it is.
Adjust your approach to it. Look for ways to see positive things. Do not dwell on the negative. Above all, if the situation is abusive, either physically or emotionally (this includes work situations also) seek professional help through counseling.

Stress will not suddenly disappear in modern day life. It will remain even increase. To reduce and manage stress takes a commitment to do so. Make a commitment to practice or do anyone of the following tips and chances are stress levels will begin to fall to a range where it is manageable and causes no long-term damage to health or relationships.

Source: Stress Relief Tips